Monday, 4 November 2013

Organized chaos....Loving life!

Where to even begin with this one....Life is all over the map.  Well not completely but kind of.  Routine but not, structured chaos maybe?  I don't know the best way to describe it but what I do know is I love it.  There is never a dull moment and almost all the moments are great.  Each day is different which keeps me on my toes and makes life interesting.  I do love structure and routine but am finding that there can be so much flexibility within these routines while still staying consistent which is a wonderful new thing for me.  We have had a lot going on here at our Mallorca home and it has been loads of fun.  For starters it was fall break in England so of course Michael and Diana's friends from London came over for some good weather
All the kids and 2 dads....in a boat.
and good times.  It is always so much fun to have visitors.  This house is perfectly suited for it and we all love the company.  In total for the week there were (including those of us who live here) 7 adults and 6 kids.  Side note...all 6 kids were under the age of 8.  All the kids have known each other since they were tiny though so they acted like they were family which was beautiful to watch.  Liliy and Maxime (the 2 oldest) were attached at the hip.  Chatting late into the night from the top and bottom bunk and coloring in their matching coloring books.  The middle 3 who were all around age 4 played games, rode bikes, splashed in the pool and crashed out at night all snuggled up together on a mattress.  I think the sight of them sleeping like little angels tucked up together was one of the sweetest things I have seen in quite some time.  Little Olivia being the youngest acted like she was grown up and followed all the big kids and tried to do whatever they were doing.  Most of the time she was able to fit right in.  We took trips to the beach where many a sand castle was built.  There also was a peddle boat adventure led by dads.  The slide was a hit with the older ones and the brave younger ones gave it a go but the drop from the slide to the
Just a couple of beach babes :)
water was a bit much so there were some tears.  The adults took a couple nights out together and I took on the 6 kids (with a little help from the local teenage babysitter who came over for a few hours).  All children were fed, bathed and put to bed....much to the credit of some amazing children who love to help each other and me out.  Couldn't ask for a better crew.  Comedy moment of the night was for sure the bathing part....all the kiddos wanted to shower together and it was hysterical.  Someone would be washing another ones hair while somebody else rinsed off.  Like I said...organized chaos...or  possibly insanity...fine line between the 2 which I have learned to stay on the correct side of quite well.  It was an absolutely wonderful week with everyone.  I really enjoyed meeting their friends.  They are all so kind and such good fun.  I feel like meeting them I have made a couple of new friends too.  On the morning that the last 3 people were leaving I was walking downstairs through the area where the kids rooms are headed to mine and I heard some chatting coming from Olivia and Luis's room.  Knowing I just dropped them off at school I figured it had to be Lilly and Lara.  I popped my head in to see what was going on and I saw them both dressed up in random costumes sitting in Olivia's old crib.  When they saw me they said "Sara....please come watch our show!"  Of course I couldn't say no so in the final 15
Original production by Lilly and Lara
minutes before these 2 kiddos headed back to London they entertained me with a fantastic little play.  I really am in awe of the creativity of little ones.  They come up with the most cool, random things.  The imagination is fantastic...especially in children who don't watch much television.  None of these kids really watch any TV and I truly see a difference in the imaginative play in them then other children who do.  One main difference is because they aren't exposed to it much they don't even ask for it.  I am not judging one way or another simply stating an observation.  The 15 minute production by these two cuties was great and then we had to say good bye.  The house felt very quite that day and the kids definitely missed their friends which was quite sweet.  Now I know it sounds like all I do is play with kids but that is not the case.  I have been taking time for myself and getting into life here on the island.  Nici invited me to come with her to one of her decoupage classes which I definitely said yes to.  I have had this idea of what I want to do which all my travel stuff but needed to learn how to do this so I could create it.  We went to class and I found out that it isn't super easy and also when you have a language
Art in progress...don't judge by this photo
barrier it is difficult to tell the teacher you aren't super keen on her style.  In the end there was some green paint that ended up where I didn't really like it and some wrinkled and torn bits.  I took my project home to rethink it.  Instead of giving up on it Nici and I hit the art store and I took on the challenge of recreating it.  Each day after I took the kids to school I would pull out all my supplies, spread out on my outdoor table and set to work.  There was a lot of sanding off bad bits, painting on new bits and covering up mistakes with more paper.  I can now say that I have brought it back to a good place and am ready to put the final touches on it.  It wont be a masterpiece but it has been a great learning experience and has helped prepare me to create the real stuff that I want to.  The other thing that has been filling up my time is playing Padel.  I must say I am slightly obsessed.  It is really fun and you don't even have to set up matches which is even better for me since I don't really know anyone here.  The place that Michael and Diana play you can just put your name on a list and they set up the matches for you.  You can sign up for as many days a week as you want.  I have been playing about 3-4 days a week and it has been
Stairs or a waterfall...both!
 such fun.  Now don't forget that everyone here speaks Spanish.  I definitely walk into these matches and immediately apologize and say I only speak a tiny bit of spanish.  To my surprise everyone has been great about it.  Very few people speak any English but it hasn't been problem.  I understand enough and am picking up more and more each time I play.  I can call the score in spanish now and know all the basic terms of the game.  Each match feels like a mini spanish lesson.  I also really do appreciate how open everyone is here and not bothered by the fact that I don't speak it but that I am trying.  The language barrier is going to be a tricky thing for sure here but something that I am looking forward to working through and hopefully overcoming.  It can make me feel a bit lonely at times though.  It is even worse too that I can understand a lot but then just can't respond or add to the conversation because I don't have the vocabulary.  I feel like I am hit with this barrier double too because I am surrounded by the German language a lot and am understanding it more and more since I hear it often but can't respond either.  I know I will get there though....it just takes time and practice.  The kids
Little Halloween Princess
like to make me practice German when we play restaurant.  Luis cracked up at me the other day because instead of asking for a fork I said "I am a fork."  One step at a time....today I am a fork, tomorrow maybe I will ask for the fork.  Even though I am struggling a bit with my languages I am still beyond happy living in this paradise that has tanning weather into the month of October.  Mixed in with this beautiful weather was a completely crazy day.  The morning had started out normal...bit cloudy but nothing too bad.  The afternoon was a bit grey and then all of a sudden the heavens opened up and it was a torrential down pour.  This was like nothing I had ever seen here.  I had to shut all my windows quickly since it was raining sideways.  I looked out my window and the stairs had turned into a waterfall and I had a moat in front of my door.  I couldn't leave even if I wanted to because I would have flooded my room.  It was crazy...thunder and lightning sounded and looked like it was at my front door while the lights flickered above me.  It lasted a few hours and then cleared leaving behind broken palm trees and rock landslides in the road.  As quicky as it came it left and we were back to lovely weather again.  Good
Me and my shadow...and yes I am all legs!
thing because it was halloween and the kids were ready for trick-or-treating.  My little princess Olivia and I picked up 2 Witches (Maxime and Luis) from school, met Diana at home and went over to Nici and Christians for some Halloween fun.  The kids had a good time and candy was collected.  It was a quick night but fun all the same.  Apparently Halloween is just getting popular over here in the last few years.  There isn't the hype about it like in the states which I was ok with.  It really isn't a holiday I like.  Sorry for those of you who do but I could do with out it.  With Halloween over I feel like we are now back to normal routine.  By normal I mean school, activities and all that good stuff.  I some how have been blessed with a fall cold which is not so fun.  It's the annoying ones that don't knock you completely out but are just enough to make you feel not quite like yourself.  I am fighting it though so hopefully it won't take me down.  I am feeling like life is becoming mine here.  By that I mean my life feels right here.  I have a wonderful family here that I live with that has made me feel like I am a part of theirs.  I am getting to know my way around using the GPS less and less. I have a local sport club that knows my name when
So happy I got to share in this moment.
I walk in and people who I recognize say Hola as I walk past them.  It is a great feeling knowing that I am making my way here and feeling content but that doesn't change how much I love and miss all of you back home.  I don't know what I would do it I didn't get to connect with you guys via skype.  I love that even though I am so far away I can still be a part of important moments like Greyson wearing his underwear on his head while potty training...or just any everyday moment.  There is nothing better then hearing a 2 year old say love you and know that even though you haven't seen him in 6 months he still recognizes you.  Sharing a afternoon chat about nothing and everything with your best friend while getting to see her face is priceless.  You can't even begin to understand what these moments mean to me.  It might not be as good as sitting together but it is a close second.    

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